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Post by link on Feb 21, 2005 0:56:49 GMT
might as well say it
what do you think of girls in their teens like 14 having kids?
me well i find it a bit harsh that the babys mother would be like a older sister
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Post by Roxas on Feb 21, 2005 1:03:34 GMT
I dont believe it is something to be proud of for the girl, but i mean i really dont see anything wrong with it, if they have the kid they must think they are responible enough
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Post by link on Feb 21, 2005 1:05:54 GMT
i would just stick a note by them saying always have a comdom hehehe
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Post by Roxas on Feb 21, 2005 1:15:25 GMT
with the 95% chance of stopping pregnancy
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Post by link on Feb 21, 2005 1:18:24 GMT
yep still a risk especially if it splits
i remember my friends dad said to his kid he wouldn't have been born but his comdom split
...they haven't spoken to each other since...
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Post by Roxas on Feb 21, 2005 1:23:05 GMT
thats the nicet thing i ever heard
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Post by link on Feb 21, 2005 1:26:26 GMT
lmao heh your strange but then again everyone else is too ;D
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Post by Roxas on Feb 21, 2005 1:30:36 GMT
no just mainly me  |
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Post by link on Feb 21, 2005 1:32:40 GMT
;D hey im strange too
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Post by Roxas on Feb 21, 2005 7:17:12 GMT
no but really, every kid who has a kid underage is making a mistake
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Post by Jin on Feb 21, 2005 7:25:43 GMT
no but really, every kid who has a kid underage is making a mistake Yeah but alot of them dont do it on purpose. It all happends with one false move during their unprotected sec and WALAH, she has a baby. And yes they are going to live with this burden for the rest of thier teenage life, but oh well, she made a msitake so she is going to have to deal with it. My friend's friend had the same problem a couple years ago; she is fine now, but oh boy was there a mess of trouble a couple years ago...*thinks back* no!! The horror! *shuts eyes* |
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Post by Roxas on Feb 21, 2005 7:29:21 GMT
I was almost in that situation with my GF but good thing my mom came home ;D
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Post by Jin on Feb 21, 2005 7:35:04 GMT
I was almost in that situation with my GF but good thing my mom came home ;D hahah nice one  This thread should probably be called "Young Kids with Babys" |
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Post by Sephiroth on Feb 21, 2005 10:22:54 GMT
its there choice but it is a huge mistake for them to make i dun want kids atm theyre far too much hassle and id hate to be the kid of sum1 that had a baby in there very young teens becoz its obvious u wasnt a planned baby u was just a mistake were ur mums bastard of a boyfriend forgot to pull out or didnt get good enuff condoms
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Post by link on Feb 21, 2005 12:30:05 GMT
yep
good views on this ;D
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Post by Tslenia on Feb 21, 2005 21:25:29 GMT
well, it's not all bad if both parents are willing to tough it out, and it can produce some very interseting children too. I don't think it is something a girl or a boy at 14-18 should go through, but on second thought no one no matter the age should have kids before they are ready for them.
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Post by Rikku. RIP. on Feb 25, 2005 0:16:05 GMT
I think young kids just shouldn't have babies, unless they're 100% sure, they have plenty of money, and stuff, but seriously. A baby gets in the way of someone's school work, you have to find some way to support this baby, and a lot of other stuff.  |
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Post by Roxas on Feb 25, 2005 3:05:09 GMT
yeah its hard on my girl friends firend who had a baby not too long ago, she goes to a different Highschool and everything
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Post by Seifer on Feb 25, 2005 11:52:32 GMT
yea if a girl like has a baby underage they get treated differently like ppl think there liks a slag or something. My m8 adam knows this girl who has had a baby underage i think she was 16 and she was on the newspaper and everything.
yea it is up to the ppl have babies underage but as Rikku said it will get in the way of their school work and stuff and need to have money and if your under 16 and you have a baby then you can't even get a JOB! and that would be really hard.
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Post by link on Feb 25, 2005 15:50:07 GMT
yeah its the same here but we had a girl in my yr who was 12 2 yrs later she is back in school and has been all the way since she even gets dished by the one who give her the baby and shes in a right state now i heard that she tried to kill herself  |
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Post by Seifer on Feb 25, 2005 16:13:07 GMT
yea thats really bad you hear all these true stories and you feel sorry for ppl and you get touched by their stories andsometime you might even get involved with it. and 12 is a very young age and it shouldnt of happened really cause obviously she wasnt ready to have a baby and take care of it.
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Post by Rikku. RIP. on Feb 25, 2005 23:44:10 GMT
There was a girl at my school that had a baby at the age of either 13 or 14...everyone was always talking about her and stuff, and her reputation got ruined big time. >.> But she continued to go to school, and I thought that was a very wise choice.  |
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Post by Seifer on Feb 26, 2005 9:33:45 GMT
There was a girl at my school that had a baby at the age of either 13 or 14...everyone was always talking about her and stuff, and her reputation got ruined big time. >.> But she continued to go to school, and I thought that was a very wise choice. Yea exactly my point you will be talked about no matter what and i agree that it was a good choice that she conmtinues to go to school and im suprised that her baby hasnt got in the way of her school work. |
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Post by BigBird on Mar 6, 2005 4:04:45 GMT
there no problem with that... j/k well i've never really thought about it but i just don't want to be put in that position if you know what i mean.
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Post by Tslenia on Mar 6, 2005 4:31:36 GMT
You know it takes two in this type of situation....howcome everyone only talking about the girls' in this situation. What about the boys? How does it affect them, and this include the ones that don't be a man about the situation and disclaim the mother and child. You do know that Life doesn't always turn out wonderful for them either?
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Post by BigBird on Mar 6, 2005 4:34:16 GMT
Hey its all good for the though so i can't complain.
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Post by Tslenia on Mar 6, 2005 17:27:32 GMT
Huh, I really don't understand what you say there Manslaugher....  . It is all good for who...... |
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Post by link on Mar 6, 2005 18:00:58 GMT
who needs to learn a lesson here it is  |
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Post by Aegisknight on Apr 28, 2006 2:14:33 GMT
My view?
Kids shouldn't have kids...that's all.
[I think there've been like 3 or 4 pregancies this YEAR at my school......maybe more, right now [lol]]
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Post by The-Amazing-Me on Apr 30, 2006 3:46:02 GMT
I got no sympathy for people that have unwanted kids. If they didn't want to have kids, they shouldn't have had sex. The only exception is with rape victims, which I beleive should get everyones full support. But then that could go into abortion issues and that's an entirely different thing.
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. It is all good for who......
